FAQs
It is natural to have questions before starting mediation. The following answers give a clear overview of how the process works and what you can expect.
How is mediation different from going to court?
In mediation, no one makes decisions for you. The mediator does not judge or take sides.
Mediation is not a court procedure, not legal representation, and not therapy. It is a structured and guided conversation where both parties can address the issues and work toward a solution that feels workable for both.
When is mediation a good option?
Mediation can be helpful when communication has become difficult, when emotions are strong, or when important shared decisions need to be made, for example about children, property, or future arrangements.
You do not need to agree on everything to begin. It is enough if both parties are willing to take part in the process.
Is mediation conducted online or in person?
Mediation can take place either online or in person, depending on what is most practical for you.
Do we meet separately or together?
Mediation usually takes place in joint meetings.
If needed, we may begin with or include individual meetings. These can help clarify perspectives and support the process where appropriate.
Does an agreement reached in mediation have legal effect?
If an agreement is reached, it can be put into writing.
In certain cases, such as divorce or matters involving children, it may later be approved by a court and have legal effect.
Do you need a lawyer for mediation?
No. Mediation is an independent process where the parties work together on a solution. If needed, you can seek legal advice later or have the agreement formalised.
How long does the mediation process take?
The number of sessions depends on the situation and what the parties would like to resolve. A meeting usually lasts between one and three hours.
In some cases, one or two sessions may already be enough. If both parties prefer to move more quickly, longer sessions can also be arranged.
In relationship mediation, I usually suggest the number of sessions after the first meeting.
In which language is mediation available?
Mediation is available in both Hungarian and English.
What can mediation realistically achieve?
Mediation can lead to a written agreement on practical matters such as parenting arrangements, financial issues, or property.
It can also help create better understanding and structure future cooperation.
The aim is not compromise for its own sake, but a solution that both of you can accept and work with.
Can mediation still work if the situation is already very tense?
Yes. Mediation is often used when communication has already become difficult.
It provides a structured and safe environment where both sides can express their perspectives.
You do not need to be on good terms. What matters is a willingness to take part.
Not sure whether mediation is right for your situation?
That uncertainty is completely normal.
You are welcome to get in touch by phone or email. A short conversation can often help clarify whether mediation might be a helpful next step.
What happens in the first meeting?
The first meeting is about understanding your situation and exploring how mediation might help.
Each person has the opportunity to share their perspective. There is no need to find the “right” words, and no legal preparation is required. We then identify the main topics and discuss how to move forward.
For many people, simply having a calm and supportive space to begin talking already brings a sense of relief. If you feel mediation is not the right path, you are free to say so after the first meeting.
Is mediation confidential?
Yes. What is discussed during mediation remains confidential. This is a fundamental professional obligation.
What if the other person does not want to participate?
Mediation is voluntary and works best when both parties are willing to take part.
It is common for one person to feel uncertain at first. In such cases, it can still be helpful if one person reaches out to discuss the situation and consider how to approach the other.
If the other person ultimately does not wish to participate, other options remain available. Mediation is one possibility, but not the only one.
What happens if no agreement is reached?
Mediation is voluntary and can be ended at any time.
If no agreement is reached, other legal options remain available.